I am an honest hard working woman, I'm determined to be me...so if you want someone to change, maybe you sould start with yourself. I've had a very hard time with getting people to understand that I am who I am, I've been this way since I was 3...I pretty much raised myself and have faught the war on life on more than 1 occasion....I'm really a very sweet kind hearted person (with a don't give a crap) attitude, you just have to take the time to get to know the real me... those who have are close friends that I know I can depend on and they know they can depend on me. Basically "to know me is to love me", so do yourself a favor, get to know me, before passing judgement on me.