Q: Even though its his fault for our breakup he is treating me like crap! Like its all my fault! How is it that your so postive being single? asked by Anonymous

A: I'm sure hundreds of people on here can empathize with you, I know I can as I have experienced this situation myself. I need to stay focus on what is really important...TO ME IT BOILS DOWN TO RESPECT...I will say it again, I'd rather be happy & free than loved & enslaved

I didn't ask to be single but I accept things for what it is...It is healthier for ME to stay in control of my life...It is ure decision to stay in this situation....A PERSON CAN ONLY DO TO YOU WHAT YOU ALLOW THEM TO DO TO YOU...

I split up with my boyfriend for breaking my trust, The whole business of breaking up when you still love someone is hideously painful, and of course you wonder what he's thinking, if he misses you and if he ever thinks he could have a second chance with you.... The fact is, you don't know and can only speculate, but I do think that if you give it time he might be more open to speaking to you about it, thats if YOU still want a relationship with him....

Silent treatment tells me a few things, ONE HE HAS NO CLUE HOW TO EXPLAIN HIS ACTIONS WHICH IS THE COWARD WAY THAT LEADS TO LONEINESS, and TWO HE JUST DOESN'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL and that leads me to believe HE NEVER LOVED YOU FROM THE BEGINNING...jmho...don't take it to heart dear...

If it helps, you could always write him a letter (but not send it!) so that you can get your feelings out.... I think that if you keep that letter and read it over in 60 days time, you won't want to send it.... Contacting him now to tell him how upset you are is possibly the worst thing you can do....HE IS THE ONE WHO BETRAYED YOU, why should you feel you need to stick your neck out for his deeds...

You need him to think that you're strong and independent and can cope as well as he can, IF NOT BETTER..Feed ure self worth!!!!!!!!!!!!!....Maybe he will respect you more for it and perhaps he'll even agree to talking again in time... In all,

I do feel for you, Your feelings for him are a chain that only you can break.... If he won't talk to you, then you need to find a healthy place to be that builds your self-esteem... Get busy and take all that love for him that's going to waste, and use it on yourself... be kind, nurture, love, and support ureself and think about one thing, YOUR HAPPINESS



Q: why won't my EX tell me why we broke up? He wont talk to me! I feel so a lone asked by Anonymous

A: People who do not understand ADULT relationships & have deep unresolved issues, act this way, he's still immature. It's his way of dealing with the guilt & pain. I also strongly see his silence as an excuse 2not face the reality of his actions It boils down to running away from responsibility...

I am sure he is hurt and regrets what he did but owning up to it is a different story as I explained in ure email... If he makes you feel just as bad as he's feeling then his job is done...Give NO ONE that power!...Ask ureself, Do I really want to be with someone who won't talk to me about how he is feeling?....When times get bad or he fucks up, are you ready to jump on his roller coaster ride?... Stand ure ground...Give him ONE chance to talk to you, make it clear and loud your not playing his games...

If you think it is okay for him to punish you for his doing, than so be it...deal with it but no matter what it is UNHEALTHY for him to be so fucked up in the head and mostly unhealthy situation for YOU to be an emotional wreck over his actions...

You cannot be responsible for another person's inability to cope....Only he can take that step and WANT to change... If you do care for him then you will not drag this out by being pulled back into the emotional blackmail or whatever label you want to give his behavior... You can't make him talk! PERIOD!...

I've given myself the 60 day rule, I'm not going to contact him for that length of time, & hopefully when that deadline comes along I'll either be over it or capable of accepting the situation AS IS especially if he had yet to contact you to make things right.

If he isn't contacting you then he is moving on... It hurts but its the truth. Actions speak louder then words... Once you start letting yourself heal, you will move on. The hurt will go away. And you will learn... All the bad things that happen to us are learning experiences that we will grow from if we let ourselves...

If i were you i would go out with the girls and do something spontaneous and fun. be a little selfish and do whatever you have to do to make you lose the feelings that are holding you back from being truly happy



Q: What would you say is your biggest accomplishment? asked by (WG)(WBK) Ro ~boooooored~

A: I think my biggest accomplishment has been that I didn't get n the way of my 2children becoming responsible happy delightful human beings. As hard as it has been at times raising my 2biological daughters from birth up until they left the nest is an amazing feeling knowing I did my job well is enough



Q: When you were young, were you the wild teenager,sneeking out the house to go to parties?? asked by (WTB) KR00KZ IZ KRAZYY

A: Actually NO...I was working & going to school...I was with my childhood sweetheart since I was 11yrs old. We got pregnant the first time we made love..I was 14... It was no longer about me and all about my daughter I grew up fast but everything I did experience as a young mother was a blessing from god, My daughter gave me the strength, the power, that I can support us both without any help from others...I am blessed to say, I lived my life as I would want my daughters to follow in my foot steps...It paid off with a happy ending...smiles



Q: Which celebrity do most people say you resemble? asked by 0|Erika|G-A| Beaujolais

A: I once was told I looked like someone famous...It will bother me until I remember who...lol...My memory is shot to hell...lmao



Q: u bee my gf asked by Anonymous

A: IDK...ure not using ure member name so more in likely NO since I desire men who has no doubts or insecurities to be NOTHING but who they are without the need to be asking as an anonymous person!



Q: ever think about going to lake erie in pa? asked by Lenny D ---- PBE

A: No why? Never been there, what am I missing....smiles



Q: friendship - no problem. Always looking for new friends and enjoy meeting beautiful women and you definitely are one dear!!!! D@ni3l asked by D@ni3l N.

A: Thank you...me toooooooo...giggles



Q: would u ever consider being in a relationship again in the future? asked by Kevin (The R Grzenia

A: I know 1day. It is important 4me 2close this chapter in my life be4 I open a new chapter. I recently was the rebound gf for 3 yrs & feel it's not right 2do the same 2another. The greatest gift I can give my future partner is giving him my heart,mind,body&soul w/out the past haunting me Unresolved issues MUST BE RESOLVED before you COULD ever move on with a WHOLE HEART...I believe that is why the good lord brought me back into my ex Ron's life...It was to close that chapter that was unresolved over 20 yrs ago. I can now move forward knowing I helped him with his life and hopefully I helped his family to have stronger tides within their circle. I got hurt in the end but everything happens for a reason and I do believe I was true to him and the good lord has better plans for me...I can just hope he will find what he is searching for in this lifetime.



Q: R U Bi ? asked by LOSTY Zain

A: I can say NO...As it seems after speaking to the women who helped me understand my thoughts, I'm not curious to be with a women sexually...I love women, I love going to strip clubs to see the beauty of the naked body but I came to the conclusion that a strong man is what I desire most.



Q: hahaha thats good though. How much grandbabies you think you will have? asked by (WTB) KR00KZ IZ KRAZYY

A: Right now I have 3 grandson's. I am happy as can be with them. I believe I will have at least 2 more in my near future. My youngest daughter is 19 & she & her bf of 4 yrs wants kids but not right now, thank god, My oldest daughter has promise me 1more, maybe a granddaughter but if not it's all good



Q: what makes you smile? asked by andy khan

A: There's alot of things that makes me smile ....other people smiling makes me smile...Just watching nature unfold, the aroma from flowers, wildlife makes me smile....but then there are those little details that can just melt my heart away you can't help but smile, my grandbabies & my children



Q: how do youu curee a broken heart ? asked by Anonymous

A: Only time can heal it. Eventually the pain will slowly evanesce. I know that moving on will not be easy because its difficult to put away the pictures & memories, though you wont ever forget but you MUST forgive. Just continue to live your life to its fullest. An ex is an ex for good reason. MOVE ON



Q: What are the qualities of your ideal relationship asked by Anonymous

A: Someone who is considerate, who is giving, caring, and sweet, able to communicate, trust, remain honest, always respect, be loyal, romantic, loving and most of all MATURE...Someone who will appreciate me & love ME for ME...respect goes both ways...Someone who is on my level of thinking



Q: Is there any other place you would like to live besides Maryland? Not that there is anything wrong w/ Maryland the Inner Harbor is a blast asked by Tony Mann

A: There's no place like home. Home is where the heart is & really if theres that u MUST be open minded. in that, I feel at "home" no matter where I am, HOME is where I can feel ANYWHERE in MY world with a smile



Q: If you could go anywhere in the world right now, where would it be? asked by Rodger Rabbit

A: Hawaii .... Something about being surrounded by water, the beauty within it all...I'm sure Hawaii will be beyond my expectation....One day!



Q: when are we going to do coffee? asked by DX wayne d

A: One day we can do that, on one condition, ure wife MUST join us.....cool?



Q: well what do u like to do are u a dominatrix asked by Bill Arndt

A: My sex life lives 4pleasuring my partner 2the extent of my abilties My goal is 2be my partner's best ever lover there is n this world 2make him have numerous near-back-breaking,leg-shaking, earth-moving & dizzying orgasms that send him in2 the world of sheer ecstacy & pure bliss, every time. FUTURE!



Q: You staying single for life? Or sex buddies? asked by Robert Alexander

A: I'd rather be happy & free than loved & enslaved. I don't need 2have a significant other 2be happy, despite what those around me tell me. There are more important things in life than having a partner. I love the single life although it has it's ups! and downs! Yes it would be nice to find someone who will respect me. I don't choose to be single, just haven't met the "one" for me. No sex buddy needed...I can handle myself!



Q: Do you beleive in love at first sight? asked by DWIGHT KEYS

A: I believe people confuse attraction &even connection w/love. Love & attraction are two different things. I do believe in attraction at first sight. you truly can't love someone unless you know him or her. I guess I don't until it happens to me. actually, the one guy I thought I actually loved at 1time in hindsight I dont think I really ever did. I'm not sure. My heart is still healing so maybe i will know in time



Q: If you could have THREE things in life what would they be? asked by DMGWEPBCPBHM Drake

A: I always felt that far 2many people give up on far 2many things far 2easily. 1st Wisdom 4others2know2NEVER give up. If people would just go out there &do things they would get so much more out of life & probably enjoy it even with the failures 2nd Build my dream home &3rd 2love again w/a whole heart



Q: Are you single for real? asked by Robert Alexander

A: Yep because I have no desire at this time for companionship, romance nor love....when I'm ready to love again I will turn the page, until than it's all about enjoying what the good lord gave me, LIFE



Q: So you like to role play or do you like to be romanced? asked by Charise Reich

A: As of today, NEITHER at the moment...I may just try to role play one day, we will see...I love to be romanced but there is a time for that and the time is wrong right now...ONE DAY I shall love again with mind, body & soul & with a whole heart...My future partner deserves that respect from me!



Q: So how are you ding? I do hope you are doing well.. :) asked by (Daddys):(TR M

A: Hello...I am okay...will be better once I have this surgery and find out the biopsy results..Hope all is well in ure world To All- FYI- I am behind in answering questions...I try to at least answer 6-10 of ure questions within a few days...be patient with me..I will answer them all!



Q: How could you have not mentioned that smile in your profile? You exude such a joyous glow. I am sooo jealous. asked by Mary Chilson

A: Thank you. No need to be jealous...I do love to smile...These days it is getting harder to keep on with a smile.....giggles



Q: Hey Memaw...congratulations! Would you care for a steak? asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: hmmm....Thanks...I already had that steak at outback...very yummy restaurant giggles...heh heh heh



Q: I dont have a real question right now but I do wanna say you seem like a real cool lady take care and of corse you are very pretty too asked by Steven Stubberud

A: Thank you so very much...When you do just ASK AWAY....ditto with smiles



Q: Happy Mothersday Sweetie ;) asked by Rob Miles

A: Thank you...I want to wish all u mommies out there a Happy Mothers Day...I celebrate today with my girls & my Mommy & I get together the day after. She hates traffic & she has NO patience so she can enjoy her day AFTER MOTHER'S DAY...lmao...IT IS HER CHOICE B/C IT IS HER DAY...heh heh heh



Q: do you know all your friends in myYearbook? asked by Najor Amarillo

A: Sweetie there is no way I could keep up with over 10,000 friends. I have rules I must follow just to keep things tidy within my MYB world...this place is for fun, you & many others help me in giving. As u can see, with the help of my friends I have donated over 123 million dollars to help many



Q: hello how is ur day?? asked by Kory H

A: Hi, I had a wonderful day with my girls & grandbabies. I'm always touched with the homemade gifts my girls make me. This year, I recieved a homemade card. On the front, I have 3hand prints. One of each of my grandson's. She said she had 2trace their little hands while they slept. My girls r creative



Q: so since you say SBC...i asssume that you like the single life and feel that you can live it mor eto the fullest without a partner? asked by Shorty

A: I just don't need the headache men have given me...I'm more relaxed & I enjoy living my life without feeling someone is holding me back considering they have insecurities & unresolved issues. I'm always taking care of another as in my last relationship nothing I did was appreciated. Done with games!



Q: what is the most reckless and wildest thing you have ever done in your life asked by josh toups

A: Wow, Scott & I were driving around & he found a corn field that he felt we should destroy by doing donuts. We didn't get into trouble BUT the officer stopped him b/c he burned out in the street. He even said Scott can handle a car...smiles



Q: how do you know what are you dong is he right thing or i it you dont know you just hope asked by Anonymous

A: There is no magic solution to knowing the right thing to do...Deep within, we all have an inner voice, our own conscience. It will be easier to listen to it & TRUST IT. All will work out in the end



Q: What's your favorite way to spend your weekend? (: asked by KaseyKeg [EMP]

A: I love to spend my weekend just doing whatever I please...if I want to party than so be it...I'm leaning more toward driving to the ocean and soak up the sun...I feel closer to home when I smell, feel and taste the ocean breeze



Q: Hey V! You're content here which could be just you in general, but you are captivated at Myspace. That's more specific...care to elaborate? asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: ure right, it's just me...I'm always content with anything & everything I do here of late....My newest grandson's birth has touched my soul...giggles



Q: Would you have another child? asked by (WTB) KR00KZ IZ KRAZYY

A: NOOOOO...I have notice my patience level is not the same as when I had my girls, this tells me I'm ready 4all the grandbabies b/c I can give them back...heh heh..I have thought about this since I had my tubes cut and tied. After 10 yrs ure considered HIGH RISK 4 pregnancy. I leave that in gods hands



Q: What was the craziest thing you have ever done? asked by Matthew Smith

A: Let me go back to my childhood...When I was 11yrs old, my brother, Scott & I would jump off the Antietam bridge...when u jump, u jump into a dark whole that has no bottom as far as we know...whirlpool like...Scott has saved me more than once...I was a crazy kid that loved to just have fun...smiles



Q: I'm betting that your way of playing Doctor is Alot more Fun!! asked by r smith

A: I like to think so...lol...The inmagination is amazing when you know how to make things go ure way...heh heh heh



Q: what brand clothing do you like? asked by grace FC/NR/ COT/SFP/BBB/

A: Anything that looks good on me...I'm not into the designer..I like to save a buck....now if we are talking about purses than COACH all the way...smiles



Q: if you had no hands would you still wear gloves ? asked by Mr Potato

A: Yes I would even though my hands wouldn't get cold...I would have artificial hands...nothing would hold me back from doing anything...Where there's a will there's a way is my motto



Q: how's it feel looking like a sexy attorney asked by Bill Arndt

A: pinch me...I feel like I'm dreaming...lol...Thank you...I guess I will have to role play a sexy attorney....see there is some cons to being a single women...It takes TWO to role play....smiles...Now I must somehow get this role playing out of my head...yikes



Q: WHAT MAKES YOU SO SWEET? asked by DWIGHT KEYS

A: Everyone in my circle!...why?...because they inspire me to be the best person I can be, those in my circle are close to my heart for one reason or another...I am blessed to be ME!....Maybe everything that was thrown my way also has a way to make me a sweeter person...who really wants to be bitter



Q: have you ever had sex with one man while thinking of another? asked by Low Hold

A: No. When I'm with the one I love HE IS ALL I NEED 2SATISFY EVERY NEED WITHIN ME. Now if he wants 2role play with me than I'm open 2trying new things & who knows I JUST MAY LIKE IT I think if I were 2ever feel the need 2think of another person while having sex, I WOULD SPICE THINGS UP Vickie's way!



Q: how are you doing, have you missed me?

LOL asked by dennie redneckfishe A: I did,...big smiles...I am good and you?...oh and let me ask everyone else out there, How are you doing today?....smiles



Q: hey hope you have been doing well vickie!! =] whats the weirdest thing you have ever ate? asked by victoria ~WS FBB'Z~Tc~

A: I'm doing okay for the most part. I'm keeping myself busy & trying 2wrap my head around the craziest things that are happening in my circle. I have good company 2morrow & hopefully his wisdom can give me some understanding When I was a kid we used 2make mud pies. yes I ate a few, dirt never hurt me



Q: Your grandson is so cute ^-^ asked by !~+Gangsta_O -~Add_Me~-

A: Thank you...All three of my grandsons are handsome little men...giggles...My Amber has promise me a granddaughter in about 3 yrs...If I am blessed with another grandson, I am okay with 4 grandsons cause than I have my 19 year old which would be 22 at that time to give me a baby girl...heh heh heh



Q: what is your occupation?? asked by grace FC/NR/ COT/SFP/BBB/

A: Sweetie I am jack of all trades...no just kidding....I am self employed...I make mints for adult parties to kids parties to babyshowers...good money & I love what I do...yummy



Q: What is the one thing in the world you would do if you had the time and influence to do so? asked by rj williams

A: I would love to travel around the world, spend time in each place & share my thoughts. I keep saying one day!...I feel if I ever had the opportunity to see the world up close I would jump up & down with joy...I would also hope IF I WERE IN A RELATIONSHIP, my partner would join me & not hold me back



Q: Do you have or have you ever had a nick-name? And why were you called this? asked by T.o.n.y. .......

A: My grandmother would call me Sissy...Never told a soul that...no one ever called me that but her...I don't know why I just know I was her favorite and she made sure EVERYONE knew...I rubbed her legs for hours and when she died, I was there with her...I miss her and thank you for a happy memory



Q: Are you in Joppa Towne? asked by Eric TULPO

A: No...I do live in Maryland but not there...Are you in Joppa towne?



Q: ok whats my age hehe asked by royce noe

A: You do have 52 as ure age BUT THAT DON'T MEAN URE REALLY 52. One thing about the internet, U CAN SAY ANYTHING & BE ANYONE U WANT. I'm not saying ure not 52yrs, I'm just saying, all b/c u typed in that number does not mean ure telling the truth...MY GUESS IS URE 52 cause u said so...heh heh heh



Q: what are your goals in life? asked by Okusi Matekuolava

A: Never lose my touch to easily make new friends & relationships in any place I go to...Learn everything I possibly can in this life to continue to help others with their journey...Foremost, My grandbabies & children remain healthy

Im constantly seeking new experiences, so I need to be prepared if those new experiences change the aims I have in life but right now I am content with the way things are at this moment. I'm confortable with the way my life is, one day I just may know if my love is Somewhere out there, if not I will see him on the other side...smiles



Q: Best date that you have had took place where?

1. Fancy restaurant

2.Walk on beach or similiar

3. home cooked meal asked by Got Chocolate

A: none of the above. My 1st date was w/my childhood sweetheart. We went 2 Greenbrier state park, rented a boat & enjoyed the view while sailing. He put a lot of thought in2 making the day the most memorable day of my life. I'm sure if he were with us 2day he would tell u the same. RIP MY 4ever&Always



Q: vickie,,,very nice profile, like that smile of yours asked by Johnny hector

A: Thank you...awww me blushing now...giggles



Q: DO YOU EVER HAVE THE SAME DREAM OVER AND OVER IN YOUR SLEEP? asked by DWIGHT KEYS

A: I did at one time ... I was on vacation in Alantic City...I kept dreaming about death, my oldest grandson...I looked my dream up and found that I was going on vacation again...I did a few days later b/c they shut down the casino that year...Amy and I returned to Alantic City a few days later...lmao



Q: Everyone knows we have the best military, but could you rate each branch? asked by MSgt Marshal !

A: Not really...I have no clue where to even start...My dad retired after 20 yrs as a marine maybe I should give him a call but again I don't have a few hours to spare considering I be on the phone that long...lol

I think our military has responded magnificently to the challenges thrown at them. I just wish we could do more for our retired veterans. I know many who is neglected at the VA, my father is one of those people. I'm his voice. I can only inmagine how many of our veterans has a fear to stand up for their right to recieve better health care



Q: How old are your children? Are you really a grandmother? Oh one more thing where do you get all of your wise sayings?? asked by Sheri!! ;-) E

A: both daughters, 23 and 19...YES I'm a Mie Mie and I love it...My oldest grandson is 5yrs old as of yesterday...I have to say being a grandma is most reqarding & I now understand why. I heard from others in my circle somewhere along the lines, some online, more inlikely I have my own creative writing



Q: lol sup and they wonder y ur single by choice too lol asked by randy none

A: Everyone wonders why I'm single...I am loving the single life, it's all good ...I am headache FREE..Only have my own ass to save....I don't think I have ever been with a MAN, a real MAN...looking forward to finding out if he really is SOMEWHERE OUT THERE...biggest smiles



Q: Hey V! Whatcha up to today? Hope you're havin a good one! asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: Just got back from my doctor appointment...I go in to see the surgeon on May 11...within 2 weeks from that date I recieve surgery to remove them for biopsy...still playing the damn waiting game..besides that I am doing awesome...Friday will be a good day, smiles



Q: if you won the lottery, what would be the first thing you would buy asked by B*K. CoI TRU DS FNZ.

A: First thing I would do is pay for my dream house to be built..I be saving lots of trees and homes for our forest friends...smiles..second I would buy tons of land just to own so no one can build. no one thinks of the animals left after they destroy their homes...I would donate to my family & friends



Q: what are some of your hobbies? asked by DX wayne d

A: I love making mints & making people smile..cooking is my favorite hobby...soaking up the sun, listening 2the waves crashing is another thing I love. Getting my ped & nails done is another hobby. Love 2tan & pamper myself ON MY OWN DIME had 2add that b/c u got dumb jealous bitches looking 4 attention



Q: What would you do if your boyfriend forgot your birthday? asked by Mighty Mutant MTM L

A: First off I would 4give considering MEN don't think the way we do, now if I were a man & my women 4got my birthday I would have 2 juggle a few thoughts. One & foremost I ask myself what issues has she been dealing with that would cause memory loss, stress factors goes along way, in the end I FORGIVE



Q: Who is your favorite actor/actress? asked by Michelle C.

A: Everyone knows it has to be Jessica Alba...She was born 10 yrs after me and her homeland is Cali which I love CALI...heh heh heh...she is soooo damn fine...yikes did I just say that out lud...HELL YEAH ...She is one fine lady...LOVE HER



Q: do you fool around on the first date asked by EVERETT MOORE , my a

A: No, only a dog wants a bone/ho...I believe if u act like a lady YOU WILL BE TREATED AS ONE...I have respect for myself and I know if I don't respect myself NO ONE will...I demand respect!



Q: do you like to play pool........ asked by royce noe

A: I love playing pool....Funny you ask...I just went a few days ago with a good friend and beat his ass...hah hah hah...smiles



Q: What has the greastest potential to turn you on?

1. the way someone smells

2. the look in someone's eyes

3. the sound of someone's voice asked by animo diverso

A: All the above...I know I am greedy...lol...I deliberately look 4something 2like about each new person I meet. In one, I might like his sense of humor. In another, I might like the way he talks about his kids. In another, I'll enjoy her patience, or the way she handles pressure.

course, there's a bunch of stuff about each of them that can get on my nerves, I'M SURE. If I'm not deliberate about looking 4what I like, the bad stuff might start coming 2mind first..smiles



Q: Have you been in a physical fight with another female in your adult life? asked by Ronald Foy

A: Oh Boy. A girl really pissed me off & it takes ALOT 2get my blood boiling. I grabbed her by her hair, pushed her face in2 the wall & made my point clear. She was a drunk ass piece of work trying 2be the center of attention & I gave her exactly what she wanted. MY UNDIVIDED ATTENTION

I was willing to walk away UNTIL she put her hands on my shoulder after I told her 4 times to stop touching me...she continued as if I would not react. I normally can keep my calm but she kept pushing my button. I could have handled it better but it was one of those moods that got the best of me



Q: DO YOU LIKE TO EAT OUT OR STAY AT HOME? asked by DWIGHT KEYS

A: I enjoy cooking my own dishes...It is a passion of mine to tweek recipes to my own liking...I eat out once a month or so with friends and/or family



Q: have you ever had any extreme injuries? asked by victoria ~WS FBB'Z~Tc~

A: Yes...I was a passenger in a vehicle that was totaled due to another drivers neglect by doing a u-turn on a road that is 50MPH ...As the passenger I got the full impact.



Q: If anything at all, what do you know about Australia? asked by T.o.n.y. .......

A: Nothing!... I have a hard time keeping up with the USA...smiles...I am sure it is beautiful....giggles



Q: Is 8 years to long to be single and with no dates? asked by Robert Alexander

A: Nothing wrong with being single...Is it ure choice to STAY single?...I need more information... if u wish to spill the beans I'm listening....please keep conversation here...smiles



Q: DEMOCRACY is issue here! Not rights/wrongs of smoking!..I'm just talking pubs/bars Should there b pubs where peeps may smoke if they wish? asked by hello.f. alova

A: I think the government has control issues, but as to ure question. I'm a nonsmoker as of Jan 27, 2009. I feel WE all have rights. I have the right as a NON SMOKER 2 NOT STEP FOOT IN2 A BUILDING THAT IS MARKED AS A SMOKER BUILDING. I feel it is a choice, & the government has taken many of our choices I have been on the other side for MOST of my life...I understand why a non smoker would want the post office, stores, movies ect...as a non smoking building...but for clubs, bars is freakin crazy IMO...these places among others should be considered CHOICES to each person. Put a damn sign up to keep everyone happy, AYOR= at your own risk



Q: Has your kids ever found out anything about your past you didnt want them finding out? asked by Lil Ra3-Ra3

A: No. I have very open relationship with both of my girls. there is NOTHING I can't talk2 them about, vice versa. I raised both of my girls & I'm blessed 2say, my oldest daughter is raising her boys with the same morals & upbringing I gave her. To me, her actions tell me I did a super job raising them



Q: What is your favorite song? asked by Michelle C.

A: Somewhere Out There by Celine Dion is my #1 .... Goodbye to you by Michelle Branch and Find a way to my heart by Phil Collins .... oops u said song, not songs...lmao...there ya have it, I gave ya more than what u ask for...giggles



Q: If you could change one decision you've made in your life, what would it be? asked by Anonymous

A: I wouldn't change anything...I'm satisfied with all the decision I made, good and bad...why, b/c changing one thing in my past means changing who I am today. I love who I am!



Q: If you saw a shooting star, what would you wish on it? asked by Anonymous

A: I wish the hearts that beat with mine are surrounded by angels for protection...lives each of their lives 2 the fullest and has all the joy in the world as I have experiences with each one that has touched my heart...also would love 4 MY true love to find me knowing he is somewhere out there



Q: Prettiest Gramma I ever saw in my life, let alone mom =] asked by etrigan demon

A: Awww thank you giggles...I am the happiest Mie Mie in the world...My 3rd grandson, Wyatt is so handsome just like his big brothers ...I am sooo blessed to have 3 grandsons...smiles



Q: I LOVE YOUR HAIR SO WOT DO U DO FOR FUN asked by james aleshire

A: Thank you. I always have 2 much 2 say..2 answer ure question READ my blog, on yahoo, http://profiles.yahoo.com/cross33heart scroll down on right side of page I can go on & on with all the fun things I like 2 do or what is fun to me, Honestly, It does not matter what I am doing I make sure I have fun with WHATEVER I decide to do



Q: hey Memaw! How excited are you!? asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: It is Mie Mie....smiles....I am the happiest MieMie in the world...My 3rd grandson, Wyatt arrived today finally...He was born @ 3:08pm, 8lbs-13oz, 20-1/2 inches long and head was 14in round...I am sooo blessed, I will share a photo here in a few minutes...stay tune...smiles



Q: what's your ideal man asked by jimmy stedman

A: I've come 2the conclusion that all our lives we're sold this fairytale formula of who & what the ideal man should b. The ideal man 4me will understand that our relationship isn't defined by a marriage certificate. I think I'm a typical women, my ideal man is someone who WILL grow with me...That's it



Q: What's the most uncomfortable sexual situation have you ever been involved in? asked by Travis Whitish

A: Back in the day when my gurl Niecie & I did our first hit of acid...This guy Herb was at my house & pulled his winkie out and jacked off on my chair. I was hungry & made a pop tart. The toaster caught on fire & Herb would not assist 2 women 2 put the fire out UNTIL HE FINISHED HIS DEED...lmao It was one hell of a situation I put myself in...I still laugh about it today



Q: have u or would u ever pose nude asked by john ryan

A: Yes I have posed nude, in my shower, bedroom & livingroom & outside. Yes I do it again,...I am the kinky type...I find video taping ureself in action can really be a turn on for both ....I can learn a lot just by watching myself in action ...Something I like to introduce to my next partner MAYBE



Q: This is more of a statement than a question. I absolutely LOVE your hair! asked by Anonymous

A: Thank you...I love it tooo no matter how much I nag about slamming it in doors, catching it on fire and most of all SITTING ON IT TILL IT YANKS MY DAMN HAIR OUT...lol..I feel better now...giggles...I really do love my hair...I need to get it trimmed this week and hopefully my hair dresser can do me



Q: can i get a look at your panties if i reveal myself and send you something back? asked by Anonymous

A: again, I sure do hope I have more than one anonymous asking questions...this is too funny, let me search the world wide web for a perfect ass to claim as mine...ure not fucking serious...lmao...I can understand why you hide behind a mask...I am out of time today to entertain you



Q: im not hidding just wanna get some answers asked by Anonymous

A: Well sweetie all ya have to do is ask and I will answer you....If ure comfortable being Anonymous than by all means...smiles



Q: What part of your day do you look forward to the most? asked by Anonymous

A: Each morning I open my eyes, ...I'm beginning to enjoy eating breakfast in the morning...It is true, keeps me satisfied, wink



Q: Very interesting.....GO YOU!!!!...lol asked by Marco Polo

A: Look at me go...lol...I am to funny...giggles



Q: I've heard "no matter how hot they are, someone is tired of them" What might you do to make someone tired of you? asked by Marco Polo

A: The thought of someone getting tired of me is not my idea of a healthy relationship so I would not do anything to make him tired of me. I hope he can be as honest with me as I would let him know how I feel & go from there... It's easy for me to say I can keep my mans attention as long as RESPECT is fullfilled & he remains the honest man I fall in love with, my personality wins his heart, either way, I would NEVER give my power away, I own my feelings and will deal with them in a way that is not destructive to me or to my mate



Q: Glass toy???...hmmmmmmm asked by Marco Polo

A: LMAO...Yes my favorite toy, it's the 2nd I've own, both work well, the 1st one bought, I broke it in half b/c of the ex, 2nd, he bought which was cheaper & glad he kept it although I used it ALONE for my own sexual satisfaction...lol, the 3rd I bought a few months ago & love it! NSN



Q: Would you ever cut your hair short? asked by Mark Chatagnier

A: No not at this point in my life...I will keep it trim to maintain my healthy hair...although it is and can be a pain in the ass but in all I have a few ways to use my hair to seduce my man and keep u in a sexual trance...NSN more



Q: If you were the star of a reality show, what would it be called? asked by Prince Shawn

A: Drama makes for a good show and we all know I hate drama....you have to admit sex sells above drama....lol....My show would be called SEDUCE ME, I think anyone would feel lucky to have me seduce them LIVE FEED & I can seduce any man OR WOMEN & feel confident enough that u will walk away SATISFIED



Q: would you join in on a orgy asked by Anonymous

A: Will you come out of hiding?....hmmmmmm waiting....hope ure satisfied with ure answer...lol



Q: i can't but you yet but i will and i love this song asked by Okusi Matekuolava

A: Ditto my friend, The song Already Gone by Kelly Clarkson is the most strong felt worded song I ever heard....It fits my recent ex and I...the message sends strong vibes that speaks to my heart...this song helped me move forward...I soooo would pass this song on to recent singles...smiles



Q: you+me+my room=? 1.)movie 2.)sex 3.)fight 4.)talk 5.)party 6.)cuddle 7.)make out 8.)oral 9.)fuck hardcore asked by colton seeton

A: I will have to say MOVIE....as long as it is not a repeat and actually something that will keep my attention...I am done with viewing the repeat, over and over again shows I have no interest in watching...please take a moment and entertain my mind..lol



Q: ya cause i think ur cool asked by randy none

A: I think ure cool too Randy, soooo much like cool beans....big smiles...Have an awesome day...giggles



Q: what would you ask me? asked by Phil Roberts

A: I don't ask questions, I rather be on the end of answering them....lol...Still waiting on Wyatt...He is too comfy and rather stay warm...She will be induced tomorrow morning at 7:30...oh boy, another day closer and I meet my newest grandson....me excited...smiles



Q: LOVE YOUR PICS U GOT SOME LONG SEXY LEGS MMMMM WOWWWWWWW U R A SEXY LADIES BABY asked by james aleshire

A: Thank you....I feel sexy...giggles...Whether you're a man or woman, it feels good to feel sexy. It doesn't matter who you are, feeling attractive boosts confidence and happiness ...so again thank you for giving mine a boost...biggest smiles



Q: If you could ask ! person from any time era ! question.....Who and and what question and why? asked by CHILLER no voting

A: I think I would want 2 go back to the late 1800's 2 talk 2 my grandfather's mother's, MOTHER. She is a full cherokee indian and I would want to know as much as she is able to teach me, about my family health, food, stories of history that was seen through her eyes. Look in the My Short Hair (ure request photo album) to view the photo of my mom's, FATHERS, mother..Do I resemble her? if so, I want to hear ure thoughts...lol



Q: how can u manage like a single mother in this crazy world... and in this hard life???good mud and smiles are not enough.... asked by tudor marinica

A: My girls are now 23 and 19, I feel life was a struggle at times but I had my girls & they drived me to be the person I am today, they helped me fight my way 2 the top...I made it through with keeping smiles on my face & just getting through whatever the good lord put in front of me with an open mind



Q: will you take soe pix of you usin they glass toy asked by Anonymous

A: hmmmm, why don't YOU entertain me. I can see why ure anonymous, all I can inmagine u to be is a lonely soul that has some major issues lingering on the inside just waiting to be set free..I bet u would never ask a women this in real life..why?..u don't have balls 2use ure real MYB member name...JMHO



Q: I think I lost my phone number... Can I borrow yours asked by DX wayne d

A: Sure can....lmao...Really...ya want to borrow my number...lol...okay here2024527468 ...giggles If I don't answer you must PROMISE to comment on this answer, okie dokie



Q: what is your favorite kind of music? asked by DWIGHT KEYS

A: I like all kinds of music, but I would say 80's rock is my favorite maybe because it brings me back to such a fun and exciting time in my life...I have different music for ALL of my different moods...WHATEVER seems to fit me @ that very moment...smiles



Q: If that is the case of you getting envovled with somone from another state wish you knew I excisted.. asked by Anonymous

A: Why u or anyone would be so scared 2 come out of ure shell is beyond me. Don't tell anyone, I only talk n chatter b/c I RATHER HAVE A REAL CONVERSATION N THE PUBLIC EYE 4reason I know he will b his true self & it is a turn on knowing he has no fear & confident enough 2be in the spot light among many



Q: would you ever go out with someone you meet on here and exactly how ruff and kinky do you like to get asked by Anonymous

A: I have answered a question like this before so I will say it again YES! When or if that time ever comes that I decide 2 step out in2 the dating world again Guess u will never know since ure 2a shame 2b ureself..Kinky is for U to find out so stop hiding behind a computer screen & show ureself..smiles



Q: If tweedle dee and tweedle dum where having a battle what would it be over? asked by adams light

A: Let me ask you this, which game do you have in mind? even better, why this question?...Am I having a blonde moment? Please fill me in..lmao



Q: hey sexy so how you doing and thanks for adding me..... smiles....... let me say you dont look your age asked by Charise Reich

A: I am awesome today. My pleasure, hopefully by the time this weekend is over I will meet my newest grandson, Wyatt, I am just on pins & needles till he arrives..giggles...thank u...I don't really feel it either..smiles...Hope all is well in ure world, mine seems to be fading day by day..TOWARD LIFE!



Q: SO I C U R SINGLE DONT U MISS MAKING LOVE TO YOUR MAN OR SEX U CAN DO WITHOUT asked by james aleshire

A: Not really, more like a loving touch & knowing I'm loved. I miss, &believe me it has been many yrs since I had the following, Having some1 there 2help me, support me guide me hear me understand me share with me LOVE ME & just being there 4ME! Simply the feeling of falling n love is what I truly miss



Q: Gorgeous...could i come an date you? asked by pappa2002

A: Big smile. When the time comes I'm sure u will know. Right now, before I could give my heart 2 another I need 2 make sure the ex is & stays n my past...My next, deserves 2 have ALL of me, heart soul & emotions....I want 2 give 110% of me & nothing less...time heals all wounds & right now I WANT TIME



Q: How do i tell her how i truely feel about her without scaring her off? asked by Alex Mues

A: If u feel comfortable w/each other then take the risk & express ureself. Communication n a relationship is important rather if ure just friends. Be honest Women on the other hand love2 b told they r loved pretty, etc. So even if the woman doesn't feel the same about u you can't go wrong telling her.



Q: How you doing, beautiful? asked by Travis Whitish

A: It is the beginning of summer & I'm feeling good knowing I will be traveling soon. I'm doing good for the most part, thank you for asking....MESSAGE 2 ALL- I really appreciate ure comments & ure continued readership, most important ure true friendships....You all make me smile..I will keep u updated



Q: fave color and birthday??>?> asked by tim clark

A: Blue is a wonderfully peaceful color, it is the color of my eyes, and birthstone...I love blue!.. I must say my birthday, September 1st, My favorite cause I count each year as the real beginning of a new year...heh heh heh...I am hopeful to become a year older so I can also be a year wiser....smiles



Q: Just want you to know every time i feel down all i have to do is see your smile and it turns my frown upside down ... smiles big.. asked by Charise Reich

A: Charise, ure a beautiful friend, thank you! Here is a poem for you...You made my day girl... I appreciate ure kindness, more than words can say, The very nice thing you said to me, REALLY MADE MY DAY



Q: have you always lived in maryland? asked by DWIGHT KEYS

A: For the most part, YES My first time visiting Florida, I drove 2 Jacksonville 4 vacation for 9 days. I cried when I left. Once I got home, I bought myself a ticket 2 go back & STAYED a month. I love Florida, the sun & palm trees, something about the ocean calms my soul, the south won my heart



Q: I read your blog, I agree that in the wrong relationship it is easy to be the pacifier and quit doing what you like. Why do we do that? asked by Michelle C.

A: I think love is blind. I didn't notice how much I put HIS needs above my own UNTIL I allowed myself 2see what my VALUE among purpose was for me 2continue 2feel so unloved, so disconnected with a man that didn't give a damn 2give me respect in return. I notice 2day it was about HIM

I fell so deeply in love with him all over again and I ask myself, for what?..TO BE HURT AGAIN?...if we knew what the future held we wouldn't live life, right?...It is not uncommon for women to put others needs above their own and as a result find themselves depressed and resentful. Some do too much and end up with too little time and energy for pleasurable pursuits.

When this is taken to extreme it can be considered codependence and I believe my ex's mother has cause most of his issues that has cause his problems in every relationship he has ever been in...Looking in from the outside, I see the main issue of not ABLE to address his actions nor take responsibility...I feel he is NOT able to handle these situations that HE has caused...I think and yes I think to much, his mother has made so many excuses for him that he has adapted to that way of life...or should I say, used the excuse to run from his problems instead of facing them...

I don't feel that he will EVER have an adult relationship for these reasons...first you have to want to fix the problem and second you must SEE the problem....again, something that will never be addressed IMO...I have no doubt that he didn't love me....I know he does and always will...sadly his mother never gave him the tools to be in an adult relationship...he depends on her for whatever reason he can find and she allows it b/c I believe SHE NEEDS HIM TO DEPEND ON HER...in my mind, it is a sickness and he will only get help if he wanted to see or have a better future...again the kids who see this behavior is repeating HIS cycle...ONLY HE CAN BREAK IT SO THE NEXT GENERATION DOESN'T REPEAT IT...sorry I needed to vent I suppose...Now I feel better, thanx for the question Michelle

P.s...I don't think it was a wrong relationship...I learned a lot and I hope he did, well I know it would be hard for him to admit but anyhow I don't feel our second round was a mistake...it was a lesson for us both...now we both pay the price and in the end, I hope he found what he was looking for

Q: What do you want to get out of your life? Where do you want it to go from here? asked by Daniel Stone

A: I'm hoping to gain inspiration, motivation and a sense of joy and peace. I love learning, and I love growing. I want to get some kind of positive change. Maybe it isn't necessarily what we do with our lives that matters. Maybe it's all about how we treat others while we are doing it.

Maybe that's how we change the world, we change ourselves and we give everyone else the opportunity, space and time to make the same decision. If others don't make that decision, we accept it and honor their individual choices and experiences. I believe our lives give us hints as to our vocation, our passion, our bliss����¯�¿�½���¯���¿���½������¯������¿������½����¯�¿�½���¯���¿���½����¯�¿�½������¦ I want to search myself and my story in order to find my bliss and my direction in life. What do I love? What drives me? What are my interests? What are my passions? What makes me lose track of time? What were my dreams in the past? What are my dreams today? What is truly important for me? What is a life worth living?

All these questions overwhelm me for the life events that is happening at this very moment. When ure force to face the reality that life can be over in a split second, you seem to open ure eyes and try to hold on to what matters most...LIVING



Q: How do you feel about getting hit on nearly 24/7 on myYearbook by random people you don't know? asked by Leanne Sonnenschein

A: Honestly, it makes me feel uncomfortable...Happens online and when I am out and about...I was hit on twice tonight and I hate it...I removed my wedding rings b/c I knew I was lying to the world & mostly to myself...I need to face people and be honest...what sucks the most is admitting I am single!



Q: Hey Vickie ((smile)) God Bless You!!! Hope You're Having A GREAT Day!!! asked by Matt~B2BW~1S ~AWE~SBR~WTF

A: Thank you & God bless u. Actually I did have a fabulous day..I got to catch up with my old friend today. It had been forever since I talked to her, let alone spend time with her. My grandson's made me smile and my thoughts seem to fade away...yes I say a very good day spent with people who love ME!



Q: Would you ever date me? asked by Travis Whitish

A: Ya never know, u may not be single in a few years...believe me when I say this, It will be a LONG time before I even can think about giving my heart to another...I have a lot to fix within myself...My wall may never come down...a lot can happen in a few years so try again if ure single...wink



Q: would u like a hot bubble bath in a hot tub with mirrored walls, followed by hot passionate lovemaking on a queen sized water bed... asked by tim clark

A: Yes and who in their right mind wouldn't...Your vision sounds like heaven...I have not had a water bed since my teens...OH MY GOD, Okay I am back to reality...where was I?...lol..u said waterbed..I love the motion in the ocean...not saying anything else...giggles



Q: hey you! Join me for a steak? :) asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: I am hoping we can later today, yes it is after midnight...lol...so far Amber seems to think Wyatt will continue to bake for another day...Call me at noon....okay?



Q: thank you so much for bidding on my pic!! :D asked by victoria ~WS FBB'Z~Tc~

A: My pleasure sweetie...I will cash them out and lose tons of money but hey everyone around me is making money and that puts a smile on my face...giggles..enjoy!



Q: sup hot stuff how r u asked by randy none

A: I had better days. The good lord is testing my strength @ least now, I don't feel alone, I have good friends & my family surrounding me. I have not been 100% truthful with them YET. I just feel I should hold back until the biopsy is done. What was found during a routine Pap smear is rare ;0-(



Q: i dont think i have ever seen anyone more beautiful on here, andi have seen some smoking hot ones..but u are the smokingest!!! asked by tim clark

A: How sweet, you made me smile and right now at this time in my life, is the only time I am in need to assist me to keep my smile bright...I sure do wish I felt beautiful, in any case, I will beat this and again thank you for your comment...ure a good friend...smiles



Q: Do you feel comfortable telling a guy your feelings? asked by my name is you wont rem

A: Yes! Communication is very important 2me as it should be for him2. It is one of the 3 things that make a relationship, THE HEALTHY EXCITING RELATIONSHIP!...followed by RESPECT and TRUST. If more people would open themselves up 2the one they love I can bet they would have many years with one another



Q: what size bra u wear, like it ruff and hard or nice and easy,u shave and do you like oral asked by Anonymous

A: First, I am a small C...I love to seduce my man, I like to be fucked but made love to all at the same time...it is possible cause my ex Scott was a professional when he was living, How is that?..I am happy with my nice trim cut and as for oral, my man will find out in the bedroom behind close doors



Q: do you collect anything? asked by DWIGHT KEYS

A: I have many things that I do collect. One thing that I love & is a rare find is my early 1940's antique teak wood, hand carved coffee table & bar. Thailand people smuggled furniture in2 the USA to survive during the war..I do have other collectibles that is part of history. I plan 2 add 2 my website I was told the art images that are carved from wood is a story of what was happening during the time this furniture was made. The coffee table and the 6 stools that go under the table is the beginning of the story of the war and the bar is the end of the story. Very unique piece of history



Q: WHat do you like to do for fun? asked by Jeff Bush

A: I always have to much to say..to answer ure question READ my blog on yahoo, http://profiles.yahoo.com/cross33heart scroll down on right side of page ����¯�¿�½���¯���¿���½������¯������¿������½����¯�¿�½������¯����¯�¿�½������¿����¯�¿�½������½ ! - I can go on & on with all the fun things I like to do...or what is fun to me...honestly, It does not matter what I am doing I make sure I have fun with WHATEVER I decide to do



Q: How attractive do you think I am? (1-10) asked by *Don't vote* *******

A: Allow me 2give ure question a taste of me with a twist. It is within that is attractive 2me, not the outside & it doesn't matter what I think, it's how u rate ureself that matters. I don't know u2 include personality & URE emotional feelings toward people & life in general so I have no number for u



Q: NO you ROck! happy early birthday lol got any plans yet for your bierthday? asked by ����¯�¿�½���¯���¿���½������¯������¿������½����¯�¿�½������¯����¯�¿�½������¿����¯�¿�½������½ssary

A: Giggles....I sure do have plans....I am taking my daughters and their men to celebrate my 39th and to celebrate their 4 yrs of an awesome relationship with their men...We are leaving on August 28th and believe me I am counting the days...smiles...I am so excited cause I need my time with MY family!



Q: How do you know when you're in love? asked by Eric Houston

A: The simple answer is, u just do! u cant stop thinking about him, ure heart skips a beat every time u see him. u don't care about anything else, & would do anything in the world 4him. u click on every level, hobbies, personality, likes, dislikes as in respecting him 4the differences, u get the picture



Q: Do you beleive in love at first sight? asked by DWIGHT KEYS

A: Love and attraction are two different things. I do believe in attraction at first sight. you truly can't love someone unless you know him or her IMHO= in my humble opinion



Q: do u like romantic men??? asked by tim clark

A: No man I've ever dated or been in a relationship with has ever been the romantic type, wait, unless u count dancing in the living room & learning ure recent ex did the same thing with his last 2 exes. I know how 2 pick them, right. I would love 2b romanced. I guess good things come 2those who wait



Q: What would you do to get a crush to like you? asked by Eric Houston

A: That realize is this is one of the BIGGEST energy drainers known to man, or woman.. When you truly are being ureself, you are open to wisdom and information that would BLOW YOUR MIND.



Q: what do you want for your birthday? asked by dennie redneckfishe

A: A maid! It's coming up, so you better start saving! ...seriously, a nice day visiting with friends and family would keep me smiling...dinner with my all my children and grandchildren would make my soul happy



Q: would you ever date someone younger then you? asked by Charise Reich

A: Yes! 12 yrs older than me whom I eventually married w/ blind folds on. He took me 4over 40,000 cause he had a secret that he kept well hidden, ADDICT TO CRACK. divorced 3mon after marriage, only wasted 2yrs 4months of my life with him. My youngest ever, I was 28 he was 22, he was more of a protector.....it was after my second husband was up on charges for attempted murder on me BUT PLEASE UNDERSTAND we were together for a LONG time & that one night with his drinking CHANGED EVERYTHING!...anyhow Nick was there and stayed with me...somehow we got together...only last a year...he was young and I was worked a lot but it was good while it lasted...the sex was off the charts...smiles



Q: why cant i open my beargram??? asked by tim clark

A: I was just on ure page and had no problem....Did u try again?...more in likely it is a MYB glitch...it will work itself out...lol...if not LET ME KNOW! I am pretty good in solving things...could be ure windows or maybe u need to clean ure cookies and defrag ure system...either way we will fix it



Q: ok,thanks.but what do u recomand to a week girl,who is still in love to do if she has no money to take care of herself. asked by Anonymous

A: Get an education. In todays world, there is too many places that offers help to women. educate and while ure learning, find ureself and boost ure self esteem...u do not need a man to survive n this world.



Q: what u will do if ur husband cheat on u ?and u depend on him with all .. asked by Anonymous

A: First I am not ever getting married again so this is for anyone who would cheat. I left their sorry asses & SECOND, I never depend on anyone BUT MYSELF...My most recent boyfriend and his mother had this idea for me to get rid of my home in MD...I am thankful I used my brains and kept my home! Nite



Q: If a guy is trying 2 get your attention & stay original at the same time what can he do 2 catch your eye that'll make U smile every time. asked by SeXXy Rick X

A: I smile all the time so if he gives me a look that betrays his calm exterior, even though he is across the room, "that look" he has, says it all. It is sweeping, from your head 2 ure toes, & then his eyes linger on ures. You think u notice the beginning of a tentative smile



Q: Hello, Vickie!

What inspired the wolf/Riding Hood tat? And so large?

PEACE! Robert asked by Robert Heck

A: Hello, It's part of my childhood, Reggie a friend's wolf, him & I had build a strong bond that only his owner & I was blessed 2be close 2him. I was 2young 2keep him after his owner died. I have good memories of him. As 4the sexual side of my artwork. I love it wolfie style, need I say more. giggles As for being large...that was up to Mattie my artist...He has other things he plans to do on my back...It takes time considering I am waiting for my youngest daughter who is only 19 to give me some grandchildren...lol...His vision I trust!



Q: what were the restrictions on the (.) (.) to ( * ) ( * ) proceedure you mentioned? asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: I have 2sleep on my back & also wear the bra they put on me after surgery, both will be a challenge since I won't be comfy, another, is the scar. I have been asured that u can't see it unless ure looking 4it BUT I DON'T WANT SCARS & with gummy bears implants, it is the only way & safest way 2 get what I want



Q: If you only had 37 days to live, what would you be doing right now, in this moment? What wouldn't you be doing? asked by Anonymous

A: I would make sure everyone knew I loved them, & make each one a private video tape and write letters for when my loved one was missing me. I would also spend every single day doing fun things with my girls and grandsons so they can add some more good memories to look back on..I would not waste time



Q: So do you dance? And what music do you like the most? And would be the perfect date to you? asked by Charise Reich

A: I love to dance!..Any music that makes me feel the beat to move my feet...smiles...I would try 2 teach something that has never been done before but expresses some interest for them to enjoy. My ideal date is just going 2 grab ice cream & talk... then go for a walk...ideally on the beach at sunset



Q: What are your bad habits or over indulges? asked by Got Chocolate

A: I Indulge myself at the spa with a 20 minute tanning session...I love to tan so much that I have to force myself to say NO for my own safety. That always changes during the summer...I than begin the cycle all over again..My worse and only habit was smoking...I think I quit that habit for good! ...I quit on Jan 27, 2009 at 9:03pm. I still have those urges everyday but I remind myself, why I quit in the first place



Q: Frisbee, Hula Hoop, Hacky Sack, Super Ball or Yo Yo? asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: I remember Yoyos and Hula Hoops from my youth....I used to hula hoop and hula hoop some more and play yo' yo's before or after playing with my barbies...oh my..thanks for giving me a flood of memories



Q: are you sure your 38, cuz you look young an beautiful? asked by assary

A: Hello...Yes I am positive I am 38...I have a birthday coming up in September...smiles ...Thank you...I do feel young, so looking young is a bonus...You Rock!



Q: so have u ever had ur hair short? asked by randy none

A: I have a photo of me with short hair and just so ya know, I used to dye my hair darker, not anymore...I will add it to my album here....I have given my hair to locks of love three times...Now that I am older, I decided I should not do it anymore considering my age has slowed down the growth...I have given my share...smiles



Q: why are you single when you look that good? asked by Charise Reich

A: I'm single because I haven met the right one. Men do approach me. I thought I had it with my former lover but n hindsight I realize it was just me being intimate & true with him while he took advantage of our relationship & my kindness.



Q: How would you describe your sexual orientation? asked by Anonymous

A: I'm not a lesbian & never had an interest in having a relationship with a women so I'm not sure if I'm really bi, however I do like looking at women,...kinda like a playful game with my mate...hard 2 explain, ya just have to be in my real world 2 have the understanding of who I am in this department



Q: would you ever date a disabled guy? asked by DWIGHT KEYS

A: I care deeply 4this disabled guy legally blind n sunlight. I invested 6yrs of my life. What people fail 2realize is that no1 is n every since healthy. Every1 has something affecting them. Some don't realize it, & the ones who truly r healthy will eventually have some sort of disability anyways. Some of you are dating disabled individuals & don't even know it. Mental and physical are not the only types, emotionally he has issues that he never resolved...I doubt he ever will as long as his mother walks this earth...don't get me wrong, I wish him or his mother no harm...She has loved him so much because of his disability that he uses it IMO for her and many to pity him...it is a situation that she is 100% responsible for...but again he is 200% responsible for his OWN actions



Q: do you think looks (2 degree)/age difference matter in an online relationship, which involves some kind of sex?..fyi, they don't in my exp. asked by hello.f. alova

A: Looks no! When there is an age difference n relationships, open communication becomes even more vital 4 survival. Dating some1 who is remarkably younger or older than u is a definite challenge. It's important 2 make sure u both share the same goals & dreams. As 4sex, it will come natural



Q: What do you think about yourself and do you think people perceive you in the same way? asked by Anonymous

A: I'm a 99.9% friendly person & love 2 laugh & have fun. I have no interest 2even try 2figure out how others perceive me. I'm open 2constructive criticism. u can't allow anyone's perceptions 2 affect how u think of ureself. It only matters 2me what my family & love one thinks & what I think of myself



Q: what ya drinking ? asked by EVERETT

A: sure not jagermeister!...ack....lmao...I can still taste it...lately it has been organic green tea...I have a new addiction, damn it...heh heh heh... oh don't forget about my bottle water or here recently, my water cooler...smiles



Q: What do you do when you are feeling very sad or depressed? asked by Anonymous

A: When feeling sad or depressed I usually go straight to my computer and write in my journal...I have a private personal journal for my eyes only I write in and one on my website and Myspace I share with the world...In the end, I feel like a billion bucks when things can pour out of me...I'm happier!



Q: Have you ever dated a black man before. asked by Fredrick Jenkins

A: No, I have no problem w/interracial relationships. I taught my girls that love comes n all forms, rather if women, color or whatever. My girls have been 2 a place that I have thought about, being w/a women. My point, love is not color nor gender. Love people 4who they r not anything less



Q: are you a born again Christian? asked by mike anderson

A: ure relationship with God is a personal IMO. I don't believe I have 2 go 2 church 4god 2 love me. I feel I can pray & have my faith in my own home. I have always walked w/god since childhood, well teen years. I believe I do have a gift. I enjoy touching people lives & giving back what is given 2 me



Q: i love the way you think i'm the same way and ppl here know but i had to fight my way to the top i respect all women and some men asked by Okusi Matekuolava

A: Respect is one of the values that is a gift 2 ureself & a gift 2 other people. We often say that we need more forgiveness more patience more understanding in our culture n our society n our schools or in our workplace. But the first thing u have 2 do, in order 2 make this happen is 2 respect ureself



Q: What do you do for fun? asked by DWIGHT KEYS

A: I always have to much to say..to answer ure question READ my blog on yahoo, http://profiles.yahoo.com/cross33heart scroll down on right side of page ! -I can go on & on with all the fun things I like to do...or what is fun to me...honestly, It does not matter what I am doing I make sure I have fun with anything I do DO!



Q: do you fool around on the first date asked by EVERETT MOORE , my a

A: I have...kiss and a little bit of this and that....IN MY YOUNGER YEARS....smiles..I am a good girl...heh heh heh, so I try to be...smiles



Q: Good afternoon V! what are you up to today? asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: I been a busy little girl..AT HOME!....lol...I made it a very nice lazy day in between small task I have on my to do list....I did get a lot done around the house..Where are you my friend?...I won't be online long...I am having company over at 11:30 tonight...Hope to catch ya on line...big smiles



Q: If you were stranded on a lonely beach, what are the five things that you would want to survive? asked by Anonymous

A: 1. Ever lasting food & water supply 2. My laptops with internet and must have electricity...lol 3. My daughters and grandchildren 4. TOLIT PAPER is a must, no drip dry here....yuck 5. boat I can make stronger to eventually be mobile...giggles



Q: Why is it that someone as beautiful and sweet as you are still single asked by Anonymous

A: Outside I may be a normal chick, inside, you will find an honest heart, as long as I have a relationship w/God I'll never truly be single & I guess that's what helps me forget that I'm single in the first place



Q: when't the last time someone told you that you are sooo cute!?! asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: LMAO...that was a very cute video...thank u



Q: yes it is any man that is with you better treat you right asked by Okusi Matekuolava

A: Thank you...Let me put it this way....I demand respect and if I don't get it, I remove myself from the situation...either way, I do get the respect I deserve...You did know, people can only do u wrong if u allow them to do u wrong...I don't take ... from anyone...smiles



Q: For a slumber party silk PJs, flannel PJs, sweats, big T shirt, a teddy, or a red wool union suit? asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: My slumber party, I rather be in my birthday suit...giggles..I was very comfy this evening and it was a wild time...2 answer ure question...less & see through makes me FEEL sexy. My gurl & I had a chance to catch up, it's been awhile since her & I been together...were both so damn busy...heh heh heh



Q: Who is your mentor? asked by Michelle C.

A: My most memorable mentor was my grandmother. She taught me all kinds of things from cooking 2 parenting 2 being an independent thinker. Very cheerful & ready 2 share her infinite wisdom on most subjects. I have had many who brought value & depth 2 my life, my mother is my number 1 teacher!



Q: no not really but most women your age don't look as sexy as you do mami asked by Okusi Matekuolava

A: Well thank you my friend...I have always felt sexy, within...smiles...All I will say is, be yourself and be true to who you are as a person. This alone is very sexy to me..smiles...Feeling sexy is all about confidence



Q: what is a sexy woman like yourself doing in a dirty mind like mine asked by FIRE FIGHTER

A: I love walking on my treadmill. It does wonders for your mind, & 4 ure body. It is a state of mind. If u feel sexy as a woman or a man, then you are sexy. Tell yourself each day that u are a sexy, beautiful, & appealing 2 others. Feeling sexy is all about confidence now I feel dirty sexy, congrats



Q: well it seems life has put some bumps in your road. hope thing get better for you dear. asked by DX wayne d

A: Thank you sweetie...It sure has been one bumpy ride... but ya know I would NEVER change one thing considering all the good and bad experience has made me who I am today...I LOVE WHO I AM and changing one thing means CHANGING ME...Life is good in my world...smiles



Q: i like to take you out if u like i love to no you asked by king edward

A: Thank you King, If I ever get out in the real world and date again I am sure you will know...smiles



Q: Mami you look fine as hell for your age how do you do let me know ...lol asked by Okusi Matekuolava

A: Hi there...lmao...Thank you! See I am smiling again...giggles..My age, 38 is not old is it? I do not feel old so I guess I already know that answer...heh heh heh



Q: can i add u as a friend asked by tommy boy

A: sure can...smiles



Q: Hi do you use yahoo messenger at all asked by Bill Fraser

A: I have yahoo account...I am hardly there though...but if you or anyone would like to add me, JUST LET ME KNOW URE ON MYB and I shall add you....smiles... My yahoo member name is xxxxxxxx



Q: so how was ur day. if u could go any where in the world where would u go asked by jay champoux

A: BLESSED...Does it have to be anywhere in the world, or can it be anywhere in the Universe? The Moon!...I must be up for adventure since I have a desire 4 it. I would probably go to Paris, France because I have always wanted to see the Eiffel Tower and because I have always loved that country..smiles



Q: Helllo Vickie how are things going with you asked by DWIGHT KEYS

A: Hello there..I have to say I'm awesome...My soul is very happy...I found my place 4 everything that is positive, things that I am thankful for, things that made me smile, laugh, giggle, things that are heart warming, blissful, and joyful ... in short an asylum for MY happiness (HAPPY NEST!) smiles



Q: Pinball, jukebox or candy machine? asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: Candy has always been yuck. I have 2 say jukebox. I love music so much it makes me come alive. Music has the power 2 change our moods & touch our souls..I @ one time put music in my past, my mistake. Today I respect it, I let the words capture my heart as the rhythm of my history captures my soul



Q: hey sexy how r you? asked by Okusi Matekuolava

A: Hey you...I am well and doing great...giggles...thanks for asking...smile



Q: What's your favorite personality trait in yourself? asked by Travis Whitish

A: I am very loving & affectionate, My passion for life, My ability 2 cheer people up & that I'm easy 2 get along with, I have 2 love my sense of humor, I like 2 joke around & laugh with family & friends. I suppose the best is that I'm open minded and very understanding and I'm faithful to my partner



Q: Would you ever do the internet dating thing? asked by Travis Whitish

A: Ive done the Internet dating thing with friends I have known for years or had a connection with. Do you mean the sites? if so no, I have no interest in them. Must be careful in 2days world. Maybe I should make it my mission 2 meet @ least 1 new friend every time I go out or @ least once a month



Q: what is black membership? asked by RYAN ELZEY

A: I will be able to donate up to 5 million to charity DAILY...I will be given gifts, stickers, signatures, stars and Hi-5 to all my friends, up to two times DAILY everyday..only if ure on my friends...smiles



Q: hope my question yesterday didn't bother you..am sorry if it did.. asked by Anonymous

A: I do not get offended by words, only actions SO I do TRY NOT TOOO...Thank you for ure apology...Honestly I have no clue which Anonymous question ure speaking of...I HAVE TONS...lol...again who ever u are, thanks and I forgive ya with big smiles...huggers



Q: how was your appointment? asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: actually went very well...thanks for asking...I am pleased, as always...lol...big smiles



Q: just dropping by to say hello. glad to have you as a friend.. asked by RYAN ELZEY

A: Ditto...thank you...I am blessed each day... I feel the love of my friends daily...btw, ATTENTION; I will be joining MYB BLACK membership AGAIN...Hopefully I am able to give to ALL my friends and NOT be limit...get ready to receive much love from me...smiles



Q: how did your day go asked by tommy boy

A: It started when my mom woke me up from a good night's sleep Did a little workout save the tred 4this evening 2stay fit, yeah shake it some more I prepared myself 4 a nice shower with my rubber duckie. Then scrub scrub scrub 2freshen my pores Breakfast was yummy & my tummy was so happy 2 start my day



Q: what's the ditzy status for? asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: Because I'm ditzy tonight...lol...hey I'm going with the flow ...giggles



Q: If you could make your life into a TV show would it be a sit com, crime drama, soap opera or hallmark special? asked by Phi Silver Sprin

A: HALLMART SPECIAL I make many people feel special & some a little weak @ their knees. lol, I'm able 2touch many peoples lives that are n my circle. I can make u feel sad cause sometimes the truth hurts, Happy when the moment is right & sometimes u will cry, laugh or become EXCITED...I'm a happy soul



Q: do you like foot massages asked by Anonymous

A: I sure do...I even have a photo of myself giving a massage to my bestie on her birthday, April 2, 2010.....lol



Q: would ya ever conceder dateing a 32 year old man asked by bryan blair

A: Yes...age is just a number..as long as ure legal...giggles



Q: Q: Rate me: 1-Ew 2-Okay 3-Cute 4-Hot 5-Sexy 6-Bangable 7-What's your number? 8-Lets trade pics :) 9-Dateable 10-Lets get Married! asked by Travis Whitish

A: 5- sexy...I love babies...giggles



Q: So what physical attributes do you look for in a man? asked by Travis Whitish

A: Every man has his own strengths and in some case, his own issues and insecurities...I am more interested in his mind and deeper in his heart...I do not look at the physical part, NEVER HAVE...My exes will vow to that b/c it has been said, beauty and the beast more than I can count WHICH IS SO MEAN.



Q: why are all the good ones so far away? asked by david osborne

A: Are you telling me I'm good?...giggles...I feel I am a good catch so thanx...Wish I had an answer for you...thank you for making me smile...heh heh heh....this will be my last question for the day but I promise to answer more so ask away...smiles...Got a busy day ahead of me, bbl...;0-)



Q: If your life was a novel, what would be the title and how would your story end? asked by William Czaja

A: The title would b "The Third Angel" because the 3chapters all involve hopeless, betrayed love which explains my life. The ending would b about the lessons I have learned through out my journey. No regrets The most valuable thing I have learned from life is 2regret nothing. My happiness is foremost.



Q: where in md are you from? asked by david osborne

A: Near Frederick MD...;0)



Q: why are you impressed asked by david osborne

A: With my family, grandbabies, the weather and most of all LIFE....seems I am seeing things for what they are...Really Ive no words to explain my feelings!...it is that GREAT...smiles



Q: What was the riskiest thing you've done? asked by Travis Whitish

A: Would love to get caught...Wish Kalen was here, he could tell u some stories... sexually, I would have to say, in the rain, on my car and knowing we were to have company to arrive in less than an hour. I didn't get caught but the excitement that we could was off the charts & the fact I LOVE RAIN!



Q: Would you get envovled with someone from another state? asked by Anonymous

A: I have been there & done that a few times. actually I met my ex-husband online, Kalen and I were friends, well still are lol we knew each other 4 a long time & although things didn't work out, his part, yes he will admit it, I would date out of state. what matters most 2 me is how he makes me feel



Q: What was the most awkward moment you've ever had? asked by Travis Whitish

A: Good question! I think it would be the moment my ex & I had the home invasion at his house. I stayed with him on the weekends & 2 think his mother would be coming soon after the break in was a very awkward moment considering we had yet 2 tell her we were trying 4 round two. 18yrs later we meet again



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December 20, 2009

Sunday

I have so much to tell, where shall I start. I have big news, my Amber is having another baby. It's a boy!...My third grandbaby. She is naming him Wyatt. He is due to be here on April 19th 2010. I am so excited to have another grandson. I am not ready for a granddaughter yet. I know when she comes she will break the bank. Amber promised to try and have her in 3 yrs....giggles

We have a lot of snow. I decided to buy myself a huge xmas present this year since my 2007 Ford Fusion was totaled by a 4 point deer...may Buck rest in peace. Yes I had to name him.

I am so lucky that I decided to buy extra insurance when buyng my 07.. My gap insurance is paying off my loan. Go Me for using my brains.

I so deserve a new ride so decided to buy a 2010 Ford Escape limited 4WD.

I named him Blackie Night! Awesome ride!



My cousin Nicki just said to me a few days ago she wanted a white Christmas. We got it...lol

I am happy I bought my new toy. This whiteout is a memory to never forget. Life is good.

I wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a blessed New Year.

Go To Who is Vickie to Check out my 2007 Fusion photo's. Located @ Vickiewebsite.net. On November 17th, on my way back from Sam's club, a 4 point buck ran in my path. I was on I-81, 65mph interstate. My car was totaled at 11,500 in damages. Thank the good lord I bought extra insurance cause now I am able to be debt free once again. Then came along a great idea to buy my newest shiney toy, my SUV Blackie. See image above.

I had so much fun today playing in the snow. Honie and Ayla was having fun too. I just wish Buck the deer would have survived the accident. I feel so bad I killled a living breathing and beautiful creature. My happiness is coming with a huge price. RIP Buck!

I am working on a new and improved photo album. The old photo album link is still at your finger tips. See top of page link below. (Be patient for I have a lot to update)

http://www.vickiewebsite.net/My_Photo_Gallery.html

Have a wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Year everyone.

Much Love, Vickie