What I look for in my friends...

I really love being able to "really talk" to those I consider my friends and would love to get to know a few more of you on a more personal level. "friends" on sites like this can be (and usually are) so superficial...so fake.

I believe that every good thing in life between any two people starts with a good "strong" friendship base... I'm looking for life-long friends to share my time, tears, laughter, smiles and love with...

I always hold a special place in my heart for those who I allow to get close enough to me to know the "real me"...once you actually get to know me, you may be kinda shocked...

I'm unique, even if I do say so myself! {lol} In person...I'm generally a very shy person normally, yet I can be, once I get to know you, quite boisterous {meaning; full of noisy enthusiasm and energy, and often roughness or wildness} {lol!}

Oh and, I should probably mention that I have a strange sense of humor... really quite dry sometimes!! {lol} I'm generally fun to be around...there's not too many dull moments when I'm around because I love to play...laugh and have fun!

I do not do anger, violence and/or possessiveness very well at all {makes me run the other way!}. I've had plenty of that to last me a lifetime and have I no use for it! Life is way too short...trust me on that!!

I try to be a honest person...if you don't really want to know something, do not ask me! {seriously} I won't intentionally hurt your feelings...but if you ask me something on a personal level...be prepared for the truth. I don't sugar coat things very often...maybe slightly sometimes. {smile}

I'm often tender-hearted, but I hide it very well when necessary...the way I see it is; you can't hurt me if I put up the shield to keep you out... it takes a while for me to really let (most) people in. There have been a few exceptions to that rule! (grin)

I'm a very strong willed person, once I set my mind to doing something...it will get done...one way or another... *Please note, sometimes this is to a fault and becomes my downfall! :-0

I don't let very many people in to see the "true me", but IF I let you in...you're in for the duration!!! Those that are in, know who they are and they know how I feel about each and everyone of them...I love ya all to death!!! I would not be (mentally) where I am today without some of you in particular....yes...YOU!! {grin}

I would love to eventually be able to meet each and everyone of you in person...you're all very special to me and great in each your very own special ways! {smile} Love ya all very much!! {big smiles}